new student, any volunteers to show me round the academy? :)x

Tasha your sis needs to be more responsible with her daughter

Tania he's a sweet guy and I haven't even known him that long but I have a good feeling about him so if I'm wrong smack me silly and call me a bumpkin

Tania - yeah i saw he posted an intro thread. why the blush though?

Tania, who the hell is Travis?? I am SO lost right now...

Tasha, I'm sorry about your niece. I remember you telling me about her. It sucks that she had a seizure again esp after so long. Hopefully it was just a once time thing. As for your sister, she's probably just scared and worried. I personally probably would have freaked out. Which sometimes is the worst thing to do.

Rhia: He is sweet. Slightly stalker-ish ( ) but sweet. And, when I get my phone back, I'll take a picture and show you the necklace Travis gave me saturday night. Unless we take a picture together on his phone and then he uses it as his picture.....

Tasha: Yeah, because I do that sometimes is that a crime? -tilts my head to the side-

Wilda: He's my boyfriend. Lol, he's "Travis -wolfie-" on here, lol. Yeah, you might be a little lost. Talk to Ela and add me on your facebook later, okay? Please?

Wilda- about my niece, it just breaks my heart. I hope its nothing serious. We were told she didn't have childhood epilepsy before so I'm hoping that's still true and it's just a once time thing from residual brain damage from the cerebral palsy. As messed up as that sounds. But she is stuck in the mindset of a 2 year old. She can't talk. She babbles. She's smart but she doesn't have the cognitive abilities to do things like read or write. She is very audio-cable though. U can tell her what to do and where to go and she understands. She can go to the fridge and get her juice on her own and pick up stuff and attempt to feed herself. but she doesn't have the control to actually maintain the food on the utensil long enough to get it in her mouth. She can mostly hold a cup and drink on her own but she tends to upend the cup and get it all over herself. lol. But yeah. My sister sometimes she is a really good parent and sometimes she isn't. And she is so reserved from the family and in our circumstances there is just nothing we can do to help. For a while i wanted to just finish college and then file for custody of my niece. But when i finished college i couldn't find a job i actually qualified for with just an AA and almost no work experience... then my dad and my bf and all that stuff happened and its just not possible. But i'm still hopefully my sister will mature in the parent she needs to be...

Tasha, I completely understand where you are coming from. You would make a great parent. And it sounds like your niece would be very lucky to have you take care fo her if you could. Too bad your sister doesn't lean on you a little more. Sounds liek she coudl definitely use it. Idk how she feels or what shes going through. I know it's gotta be hard but yeah it sounds liek she needs to mature more and become the parent your niece needs. Idk how I would be in that situation. I watched my sister treat my niece and nefew like outsiders for being well, I was always told Mentally retarded which jsut sounds SO wrong. My niece is 1 month older than me and my nefew is 1 year younger. So I grew up with them. My sister has 5 kids total and I was always over there. But I wasn't old enough to do anything. Now my niece is in the psych ward and my nefew...he's not bad, but not good neither. they didn't get the parenting they deserved and it shows. But after 9 years, your sister should ahve matured and changed by now. I hope that situation changes for the better and that your niece will be okay.


Tania, OH okay...what is your facebook link?

Tash I am very sorry to hear about your niece. I hope she is doing okay

tania congrats with Travis you can add me on fb if you want

Just look for my email 1xoxtatigirlxox1@gmail.com

Sammy: Thank you

Wilda: Yeah

@Tania: Your welcome

Teehee

Mn-k Tani I trust you

Hey Sammy what's up

Friend Request sent Tania

Wilda and Sam: I got you guys on facebook!

Rhia: Thank you.

Yay!!!!

Tania and Rhia: I will try and have both of your banners made by the end of the week. Its been a crazy week here. Rhia, I might not be able to find exactly what you want but i'll do the best I can

so in 8 days I will be going to see my daddy in Virginia Beach... I may not be online, I'm bringing my computer so maybe I will be able to get on. I'll try (gonna need my skype )


Oh and Tania wanted me to let you guys know she won't be online today. she has school testing, but will try and be online tonight

goood morning everyone and have a nice day

Thanks Sam and Wilda. There is only so much my family and I can do for my sister and my niece. My parents offered to put a down payment for them on a starter house when they sell our house in NY in a few years and move to NC when my dad retires officially and collects SSI.... but my sister refuses to move because of her man - he wants to stay with his family. But her man is a douche he doesn't help out financially and only recently he started babysitting. Before my dad got sick my dad said he was gunna file for custody and move anyway. Before everyone got sick, we used to watch my niece every weekend and every school vacations. We spent the time trying to teach her things and my dad taught her some bootleg sign language. Like to say I love you she taps her heart. Awe. She can learn alot more of things if she gets the extra help and attention.

Tasha - I'm so sorry about your neice Thats terrible, and Im sorry you are feeling so bad about the whole situation, I can see how it would frustrate you! She does neeed to mature in this situation and hopefully she will soon? Wow serious douche there, what you say to us kicking some sense into him Tash? Joke. A little. And awr! Thats incredible, I love hearing things like that about the tapping her heart, awr that really makes my world

Wilda - Ah sorry about the stomach cramps you had! Travis is Tanias boyfriend

Rhia - Yaaay you're out of the corner, I'm glad

Tan - Yes, i agree with the others, you are kinda rushing into things, and when that happens things are liely to go downhill. Slow it down otherwise you wont learn what love is! And forget about Shea, he hurt you and he shouldnt still be!

Mannn, studying is a killer

Sammy: just try you best

Chloe: Ya ya

I had such a horrible day. I got into a HUGE fight with my dad. We're currently not speaking to each other at the moment.

I had a terrible night. Couldn't sleep at all. Then when i was falling asleep at 6ish in the morning- my parents start fighting and i hear them-planning my day. Apparently there was a leak somewhere and they needed me to go to the hardware store to buy some stuff. So i get out of bed annoyed and shower and get ready and stuff and my dad is fully dressed. So i ask him why. he said he is going, he is driving. I just lost it. He can barely walk. He wants to get in a car and drive and endanger lives? Then he gets mad saying everyone is trying to keep him home. Keep him sick. He said fine he'll walk. I'm telling him he can't make it the store and back and he said some mean stuff and said lets go. SO i said fine, but when you get stuck dont expect me to carry you back to the house ( like i could anyway). He then gets in the car and starts it up. We were yelling at each other and he said some mean stuff so finally i said if he doesn't give a shit about his own health then I'm done, i don't care either, dont call me when he gets stuck outside. And i walked off. I saw him at store and he could barely make it from the car to the store. He was looked so tried. And then i had to have that on my conscious too,and the worry if something happened because I'm not there. And him being so worn out cause i didn't go with him. All that was on my heart. My bf ( who was with me we were going out for his daily rehabilitation walk said my dad has to learn the hard way... like he had too. My bf at first he wanted to do this and do that and he quite frankly he couldn't do it and he had to learn by being stuck outside and needed to call for help_ When i came home from the walk with the bf, my dad was in his pjs and in bed. He stayed in bed sleeping on and off all day. He worn himself out.

But, it was just like a slap in my face. Everything i do for him. Everything i sacrificed for him. I did it all willingly without regret and without being asked too. I did it because I care and because i wanted to. I wanted to take care of him because he is my father and he always taken care of me. BUt the way he trashed talked me today and the way he acted. Not taking his own health and others well being into consideration? It just made me so mad.

When my mother came home she started talking to my dad telling him that I was right and what he did was wrong and how worried and stressed out what he did made me and what would of happened if he blacked out behind the wheel. All he said was " well, she should of been there then". Then i was telling my mother everything and I told her I'm not scared of what would happened anymore I'm just angry and she told me I had no right to be mad. Which made me SO much angrier. I have every right to be angry. And the whole time my dad is sitting there like the victim.

I'm still seeing red. I'm so angry. But I'm also so very hurt. And i just get more upset because I;m such a nice kind person, I can't ignore my dad and let him fend for himself. So tomorrow its back to being his puppet. So its like he won. And there is nothing I can do about it.

Leela: Yeah, okay.....really, at the moment.....things are...difficult. There's like, this war I'm having in me. Shea...Travis.....ehh, it's just difficult...extremely difficult! for me to diffuse my feelings for Shea...I'm not sure that I can...and there's like...this hole I feel in me...I can't really define it...

Sammy: Thank you and thanks for telling everyone for me.

Rhia: Crazy faerie

Tasha: don't get angry but I think both you and your dad are to blame for the fight because he started it, you did pour oil on the flames

Tani: why am a crazy faerie? or fairy or fey or whatever you want to call them?

Tash: i'm sorry your dad was acting like that, i can understand why he seems so frustrated but at the same time he never should have acted the way he did, especially when you do so much for him.

Good morning everyone
I have a lot to study, so naturally I'm on the Internet instead
How are you all doing?
The weather here is terrible. It was snowing yesterday (which is something that never happens in my town) and now it's raining heavily. The power was down for a couple of hours last night and I had to go home without a single light on the streets which was pretty scary and cool at the same time.
Btw, I added some of you on facebook. Those of you who didn't get a request, please give me a link to your profile cause I couldn't find you

Hey Maris
Hey Sammy

Tasha, I'm so sorry about the fight and everything with your dad. I'd probably have gone off too. I understand where he is coming from but he needs to think of what could happen if he blacked out or something behind the wheel. It's not only his life in danger but others as well. But I definitely understand that urge to do things yourself after having you do everything for him. I'm sure it gets frustrating having to have others do everything. He's lucky to have such a wonderful daughter who is doing nothing but taking care of him and of your hubby. Maybe now that some time has passed, you two can talk it out. Hope today is better for you!

Good morning everyone!