new student, any volunteers to show me round the academy? :)x

MY bf/fiance- he grew up in a really abusive environment. He's parents were divorced. He's dad was stationed somewhere over seas. He was living, very poorly in a one bed room apartment with his mother and brother and his' moms boyfriend- who was abusive to him and to his mother. When he was 10. His mother committed suicide. In front of him. She slit her wrists and took bottles of medication. Needless to stay it was slow going process. He was ten and didn't know what was going on. He asked his brother for help, his brother ignored him. He stayed with his mother while her sleeves were soaking with blood from the cuts and she started to convulsive and foam at the mouth from an overdose. He ended up sleeping with a corpse until the middle of the night. Until i met him, he had terrible anger issues. Not just he has a temper from time to time. He had serious anger problems. He trusted no one. He didn't even trust me. But since we started as friends and being the person I am, i stood by and had to endure some real hurtful stuff. Once he wanted me to spend the night and when i said i have to go home he was hurt so lashed out with anger at me. He called me a whore and said I'm like an escort. Then he broke down crying. We've had alot of situations like that. But when he realized I loved him, and he loved me thats when it got way worse. He was terrified of losing me or me leaving. BUt eventually it was something he had to work out and all i could do was stand by, retain my confidence and dignity and hope he would pull through. For awhile he let me in but then he was psycho -lifetime-boyfriend jealous. Oh and when i finally revealed to him some personal stuff i went through like sexual assault. He lost it. He went absolutely crazy. He was so hurt for me and so angry. BUt eventually he learned I am my own personal and my issues are my issues and he can't control me- that's not love. He did learn. He learned he can't keep all his emotions locked up. He's still traumatized but he's in a much better place mentally and emotionally. He used to be a fighter. Both in the gym and a street fighter. He's covered in scars from living that lifestyle. But that's how he dealt with his pain and emotions. He felt something inside him? He'll go punch a mailbox or get into group fight. And the only pain he would feel was physical. When we started dating and was working through all this, he gave up the fighting and hitting things for me. After 5 months maybe 6 months of being together- we never fought again. Okay we fought. But not like before. Normal couple fights. I"m not saying he's completely better. He still has incidents where he doesnt deal with his emotions and keeps it locked up. But slowly but surely he's getting better and learning.