new student, any volunteers to show me round the academy? :)x

Ela: lol

Sam: Me too!

Tania: Don't linger longer than you have to.

I've gone back and forth whether to post this or not but sometimes you just need to hear the truth. So here it is.

Tania, I wasn't telling you to pull away hun. I was just saying that you will continue to hurt if you don't. I even said Pulling away is very hard to do. So I wasn't expecting you to. But hun, you've given him chance after chance after chance and he hasn't changed. You're going to hate me for this but I'm not going to sugarcoatit anymore. He's NOT going to change. You're only in for more heartbreak. Boys mature way slower than guys so no matter how a guy may feel, most of them aren't ready to be in a committed relationship until college or later. You are only 15 and he's only 16. Thats how old me and my guy were. The one who only caused
me heartbreak (2 yrs worth). So I've been there. I may not have gone through the whole him hurting himself part, but to be honest he needs more help than just you with that. He needs the help of an adult like his parents or counselor. All you can do is be there.
But it sounds liek being there is only making things worse. Tania, I care about you. Which is why I'm being honest. The best thing for you both if he's not willing to committ and stop hurting you/hisself is for you both to stop all contact. It'll hurt like hell for a while, but in the end it will help you more than to continue with something that ends with you both hurting yourself.

If it's meant to be, it will be. But if it's not, there is nothing in this world you can do to make it be.

Another saying is, if you truely love something let it go, if it comes back it's meant to be. Or something along those lines. Sometimes all you can do when things get as bad as they have for you, is to let it go and see what happens.

Tania, I'm not trying to be mean, or rude or make you hate me. I expect you to be angry and maybe even hate me. But i just want you to know that no matter what, I am here for you. You can bet your ass I will speak the truth. But thats what my best friends say they love about me-my honesty, even if it is blunt with no sugarcoating. I'm sorry I'm not one of those people who say "it's ok hun don't worry everything with him will work out fine." I see you hurting way more than you ever should esp at such a young age. And I hate seeing those I care about hurting. I get VERY protective and sometimes I come out as a bitch about it. I hope you can look past that and see that I mean well. I'm not telling you what to do. The choice is yours and I have a feeling I already knwo what it is. but I had to be honest. If you want me to stay out of it from now on, I'll understand.

Wilda what can you tell me about June

Rhia:

June Birth Flower
The June Birth Flower is the Rose, as shown in the opposite picture

Meaning of the June Birth Flower: The meaning of the June Birth Flower, the Rose are passionate love and beauty

Sign of the Zodiac and Dates:
Gemini - May 21 - June 20

June Birthstone: The Pearl

Characteristics of Gemini :
Inquisitive, Clever, Adaptable, Lively & Communicative

Tania I have to agree with Wilda. to quote Irial "Sometimes Love Means Letting Go When All You Want To Do Is Hold On Tighter" sometimes we love someone and its passionate and strong and it hurts to be away from them for even a second. I told you my story, I loved him more than I can say. But the relationship was not good for me nor was it good for him, I had to let him go. I wanted him happy and the only way for that to happen was if I left the picture, and I always feel that if things are Meant to happen they will happen. If you two are meant to be then it will happen, don't force it. and Remember, Tania, you are 15 you are young (and no i'm not saying your to young to be inlove - I don't believe you can be too young to love) and I say this all out of Love okay Darling*huggles*

Its so hard trying to follow whats going on. But i think i'm picking things up.

Tania - Sorry your going through that situation. But, i agree with Wilda. Its just like the docs say about and injury. The pain will get worse before it goes away. But, it will go away with time. Time heals all wounds.You just have to remain strong and retain your dignity and confidence. And thats not saying you and this dude have to stop being friends. Some times people are good together but for different reasons. U guys might be self destructive together as a couple but as friends? U guys may be great friends. But, it could be you need a clean break and separate from him all together. Its really your decision and only you can determine these things. U just need to be honest with yourself. And whatever you decide, no one here will hold it against u, no one here will judge u. You just need to do some soul searching and figure out what it is that you need to be happy. Personally, i agree with Wilda, he wont change. People rarely change. They can mature. They can grow up. They can make better decisions. BUt fundamentally who they are will never change. If he wont commit now, he wont commit in the near future. I personally think its better to let him go as boyfriend. Sometimes it takes losing someone to really value their worth and it may cause him to look at the whole situation and have regrets and want to make better choices... and he'll find his way back to you. But sometimes its not so.

thanks wilda

now this might be a bit odd and you might think i'm crazy but who on here want's to start an RP thread about Fairies????

Oh yeah, Rhia and I are both Gemini's ... i almost forgot. I got all possessive like who wants to know information about MY months...LOL.

And I'm not really into the RP things. But if you want more people than just the few who post on this topic, post a thread about it in the chit chat section and see if anyone is interested. I seen several other people talk about RP's on this site....

we could do that! oh have a section dedicated to faeries?

Thanks Tasha

and don't worry i didn't even know that you're a Gemini oh and did you ever notice that if you take Ge out of Gemini you get mini

Mo oidhre millis do you not agree that t is a marvelous idea

Of course I do ma belle reine

Thanks Sam and Tasha. I feel less like a bitch now. I got off and felt really bad. I don't want her hating me, but I hate seeing her hurt even more.

I've never done RP, but I can give it a try Rhia.

YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

my twittascope is freakily accurate...

You are able to say exactly what you mean today, yet you still can get yourself into trouble. You may be so determined to make someone see your point of view that you don't know when to stop trying. It's difficult to just walk away from a discussion until you have covered the same ground one too many times. Needless to say, this overpowering intensity can alienate a close friend in the process. End a conversation with the other person wanting more, not less.

Check out what i put in the Fun and Games section Rhia

check out what i just posted there mo oidhre millis

I saw!

is it not amazing

Wilda, Sammy and Tasha: Okay, I understand. I read, re-read, and re-read what you guys said about my situation. Honestly...it's not really me you guys need to talk to. If Shea wants me to stay, then I'll stay. When he doesn't want me to stay, that's when I'll start my healing. But, until then...I'll stay for him. I know I sound stupid, crazy, insane and like a love sick school girl, but, really? I kind of am...and with Shea...he just needs to go ahead and speak his mind, stop shutting me out, stop constantly running away, and to stop putting the both of us in tortureous agony. I know I'm not helping our situation by staying, but my worst fears are losing him, being hated by him, and...if I leave...what if he were to just...do something entirely reckless. I love Shea, I know I do, but...when anyone asks me if it's worth the pain and suffering...I don't have to think about it. I know it's worth it, I know that everything I feel for him is real, and I know that out of everything...even though we've had more bad times than good, but, all the good times we've had, no matter how small those times were...I always know that those times are what keeps me going through all these bad ones.....

Sam why the 's ???????

Tania umm who's that a pic. of that's your avatar???

Rhia - Lol, i was going to ask the same question to Tania

Tania - I agree with Wilda and Sam and Tasha. Its important for both of you to let go. As a poem goes "Love me, but let me go"

Everyone - Im so sorry that I've been away for long time I've missed out on quite a bit here But ill get back in the swing soon! Hope everyones doing oka

Tania: I agree with Chole, Wilda, Sam and Tasha on this one...you must let go or this could just go way out of hands and you and Shea will have no control over it...it's not fair on you to hurt like this when he flicks back and forth for you...he must make his mind up...does he want you or not?

Chole: Heya! how are you girl? am good thanks good weekend love?

Hey Chloe *smiles sweetly with a tiny bit of forced-ness* WHERE THE HELL HAVE YOU BEEN?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!??!?!????!!!!!!!

Ela - Hey! Well its been a bit of a slow weekend if im honest What about yours?!

Rhia - *looks timidly to the ground* .. sorry! busy weekend! Things are better now though How've you been?