new student, any volunteers to show me round the academy? :)x

Tasha thanks for the message

Tani why haven't you been on *hugs you*

Rhia: I don't know who I'm most like...

ummm let me think about that for awhile when I get the answer I'll get back to you

Tania I miss you too

I miss you all, I'm sorry I have not been online as much

you better be sorry Sammy

Yea i'm sorry I havent been on that much either. I peek in and out of the site quickly throughout the day but I havent sat down and gone through all the posts and stuff. Just so busy with the hubby's treatments and caretaking for him and my daddy. But im learning how to cook. I fried chicken yesterday :-D lol

@Rhia


Fried Chicked! MMMM that sounds amazing! and GOOD ALMOST AFTERNOON!

well, i've had a very long day...cannot wait to go out and forget bout it tonight!

how is everyone else? and how's your day been, or how is it going so far?

Sammy: kidding kidding!!!!!!!!!!!!! Don't worry my cleite, croi-eadrom, oidhre, millis

Tasha: It's okay

Ela: hey Ela, I'm fine, my day's been fine

Rhia: Am glad that you've had a good day love.

LOl I know Rhia

Hi Ela

Hello Sammy...am off to bed ladies (and guys now)...got a headache coming on and had a c**p day, so want to sleep both of them off tonight.

night Ela

oh but Sammy, do you know what I called you??

I have no idea o.O

Aw Ela, hope u feel better and hope u have a better day tomorrow. But i couldn't help but laugh... it took me awhile to figure out what c**p stood for...i've never seen it censored before lol.

Everyone- I'm in a tight situation and I dont know what to do. So i might be a little preoccupied for the next couple of days. THe arrangement we have is my brother drives us to the hospital where my hubby gets his treatment before work. So we wait several hours before the actual appointment. But honestly, that isn't working out. My brother's driving is terrible, he tailgates, he speeds, he slams on the brakes and he has a sound system, speakers in the truck and he has the music on full blast. The sway and sliding and bouncing from the driving and the loudness from the bass and music just is making the hubby so much more sick. PLUS the waking up early and not resting is making him even MORE sick. Chemo and radiation is tough and this arrangement is becoming dangerous to his health. I've already tried to get full, both ways transportation but they just wont do it. Even if i drove, that will be problematic because there is NO parking and the valet parking closes up fast but it isnt free either So i just dont know what to do.

Rhia: Mmk

Tasha: I wish I could help...

Ladies: Things are, I guess you could say are.... Better

Hi Becca

I'm sad, not sure why but I feel like crying

Thanks Becca love.

I wish there was something i can do about this whole situation. I ASKED my brother to lower the music today and he did but not without an attitude and we just KNOW later on tonight when he gets home from work there will be drama and he is NOT gunna drive like a sane person with normal volume music again. I wish he could be a mature considerate adult but he just cant.. We're honestly thinking of spending all our savings ( we have a little over 1,000 thats both our money combined ) on cab fare to the hospital everyday ( a cab ride cost 35 dollars) for the remaining weeks of treatment cause its just dangerous to his health.


Sam- why so sad love. And go ahead and cry. I never needed a reason to cry. It feels better once u have a good cry anyway so let loose.

I have to do something I am uncomfortable doing, and partly that I don't think I am fully to blame for -_-

@Tasha I'm sorry your brother is acting like that

what is it, ur uncomfortable doing, if i may ask. Maybe there is another way and u just cant see it yet....

Becca...I hope things get much better for you

Sammy...you know where to find me love

Tasha...ye, sorry, wasnt up to actually typing it lol, so put stars instead XD my day was a bit better today thanks, but i have no idea how my day will be tomorrow or next week.

ALAI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

its an email I have to write to someone and I don't know how to write it with out sounding stupid

Oh, i hope u figure it out. iF i can help i will Sam

Everyone, i had to bring the hubby into the ER . He is being discharged right now. He was in intense pain all day and around 530pm i had to call the doctor on call. She phoned in medication to a pharmacy and she said if it didnt work he would have to come in. It didnt work. So we came into the hospital. THey did a CT scan of his and eveyrthing was good. NO new cancer or swelling or bleeding. SO they pumped him full of pain killers and are discharging. WE go to all his doctors tomorrow and they will arrange for an mri . But we have to come back in 6 hours or 7 for his radiation treatment. But im just happy he is okay Actually he is kinda high off the drugs right now lol

Tasha I hope nothing's wrong

Sammy just ask us for help if you need help with it

Becca I just thought of who you're like