Yep, i'm new,and I have a few queations :D

It sounds great so that means that they are getting married?

Ye, in 2 years on her 21st birthday hopefully and the best bit is I'm gonna be a bridesmaid for the first time and if I'm lucky maid of honour

Wow, sounds really nice!

Ye, I'll be 18 by then so I'll be able to go on the hen night and have a few drink

Verses wrote:

yes but, as your quote says "everything happens for a reason". And when hard time comes, or maybe something in my life changes, I believe that it's for the best. And with a risk of sounding religious (I'm not, even though I sometimes wish i was) I truly believe that someone is watching, relatives that has past maybe.. and therefore it happens for a reason.

at least it makes my hard times easier

I completely agree with you. I am religious, though, and yes, I believe everything happens for a reason. Hard times change us and make us who we are and even if I had the power to change my own past, I never would, no matter how hard it was.

oh yay! I followed ur instructions and got my fav quotes up but i couldn't help adding heaps :S but each time i go to shorten them or take one out i'll just put it back in so , oh well

Mean girls is a pretty cool movie, i love janis

ohhh man i have an interview at target tomorow soooo nervous

GL with your interview!

I'm not a religious person, but I am completely against abortions. The way i feel about it is that if you think you are old enough to ahve sex then you are old enough to have to give birth. Adoption is always an option. The are are soooo many couples out there who cant have kids. Plus I am a firm believer that everything happens for a reason. Even if that reason is just to teach you a lesson.

I was 18 when I had my daughter and 22 when I had my son. I didn't evne want kids ever until I got pregnant with my daughter. I dont regret any of it. Sure I would have liked to go to college before I had kids but I don't regret having them. I'm planning on going to school once my youngest starts school in 3 yrs. It's never too late to go to college. Well I don't reccommend waiting until your 40 but you get what I mean. And just b/c you have kids at a young age, it doesnt mean your life is over.

Chantelle: Good luck! I'm waiting to see if I get an interview for the ice cream place in town.

Wilda: I completely agree with you on the abortation thing. It's inhumane and I consider it murder.

Chantelle ~ Good luck

Wilda ~ I agree with you. I'm against abortion, too. And I don't think having kids at young age means your life is over. It's not easy, of course, but it's not the end of the world.

Even though I understand your thought, I'm not against abortion. (maybe everyone will go against me now) I really think that you shouldn't have a child your not ready to have. Even though there is alot of people not being able to have children. I can't agree. and I don't know if this is the right place or time to have an opinion, I'll wait a bit. But I do agree on the point that your life isn't over if you have children, i support everyone, and I admire everyone that finds the strength. If you decide not to have a child, it's meant not to be.

Well, I think that if you decide that you're not ready for a child, adoption is a much better option.

Verses wrote:

Even though I understand your thought, I'm not against abortion. (maybe everyone will go against me now) I really think that you shouldn't have a child your not ready to have. Even though there is alot of people not being able to have children. I can't agree. and I don't know if this is the right place or time to have an opinion, I'll wait a bit. But I do agree on the point that your life isn't over if you have children, i support everyone, and I admire everyone that finds the strength. If you decide not to have a child, it's meant not to be.

Sophia I sort of feel the same way. Part of me hates the idea of abortion because, like Wilda said, if you feel you're old enough for sex then you should be prepared for what may happen. But at the same time I think there are situations where abortion might be necessary. Rape, chances of passing on diseases, unpreparedness. I know adoption is always an option, and personally I don't think I could ever go through with abortion, I wouldn't be able to bring myself to do something like that. But I firmly believe people have the right to choose what they want to do with their bodies and with their lives, and if that includes abortion then that's their right.

Sophie & Kim: I understand your opinion and in some cases I agree. For example if it's someone who was raped and they're 12 or so and they could die by having the child, for me that's understandable. As for others. I'm sorry but what I think still stands.

My mother had my sister when she was around 19, a little like you Wilda. And to be fair, some people may not get on well when they have children younger, but i can take it from knowing Wilda...she is an incredible mother, and so alot of people are the same
And abortion, im not really for it, but I support whatever people do, I mean its their lives. And you guys, don't ever be afraid to say your opinions, Soph..we won;t hate you, we'll accept that its your opinion

Oh and Ela, I don't mean to sound rude but do you mean like people shouldn't have sex at this age?

Chole~ You son't sound rude. Simply clarifying.

Thanks Becks

No problem.

Haha! Oh btw, I can't remember did you end up doing anything for your bday Becks?

Dark Angel wrote:

Sophie & Kim: I understand your opinion and in some cases I agree. For example if it's someone who was raped and they're 12 or so and they could die by having the child, for me that's understandable. As for others. I'm sorry but what I think still stands.

I'm with you on this one.

Yes I did. I went out to eat with amily and friends and then four days later.. Tell Gracie... We had a miniture birthday party with CAKE actually pie but still Gracie got her wish and ice cream and root beer floats.

Dark Angel wrote:

Sophie & Kim: I understand your opinion and in some cases I agree. For example if it's someone who was raped and they're 12 or so and they could die by having the child, for me that's understandable. As for others. I'm sorry but what I think still stands.

Don't apologise, you're completely within your rights to have a different opinion like I said before, if it was me I don't think I could go through with an abortion, I just like that there's an option for people if that's not what they want.

Glad you understand Kim.

Just letting everyone know that my interview went well and fingers crossed that I get the job at target =D

It was a group interview and first we did an icebracker where we had to find out 3 things about the person next to us- pretty lame but meh.
Then we had to discuss as a group 8 scenerios from least important to most important and each member of the group had one and described why it was in a certain place on the list. Then we chatted amoungst ourselves waiting for a one on one interview and everyone was between 15 18 and we all got along really well and even the mums (once picking us up from the interview) got along great and wished each others child luck. My stressing was completely unnecessary because even if I don’t get the job I don’t really care because I madde a lot of cool friends and so did my mum so she was really happy


I totally agree with the opinion on abortion, if ur ready to have sex then YES you are ready to have a baby if ur stupid enough to go through with it but if sp it’s not the end of the world. Your life is not over when you have kids, it’s really just beginning because ur growing in to an adult who can cause change.

this with abortion.. A family member of mine got pregnant with this guy she was really in love with. They planned it all, and everything was great. Until he decided that he didn't want to be a part of it. It's a very commonsituation, but,she did not want to go through with something like this alone. And if a guy just can walk a way from a child that is as much his as it is hers, why can't she feel that she is not ready when he can? I know it must sound very wierd in your ears but she wanted a special life for her child, I life she didn't feel ready to give.

SO even if your ready, and know about the consequences, you must have the chance to decide for yourself, what do YOU want to do. A child is a lifelong responsibility, and my boyfriend grew up without a father, and his mother has never really loved him. He would never want to give his child the life he had himself.

I understand every single thought, we are 7 000 000 000 on this earth, and it's to much, we can't feed every single one. THAT is murder. not doing an abortion.

Sophie: I understand your point. But like I said and I'm sorry but my view still stands. If they can charge someone for manslaughter when they kill a mother's unborn baby what makes it right to do it to yourself? I just don't feel comfortable with the idea. I would rather people do adoption. And I don't feel it's right for a guy to walk away when he gets someone pregnant. I know what it's like having your father walk out on you.