new student, any volunteers to show me round the academy? :)x

I am very well, thank you. I feel like I've said too much, but didn't bother to know about anyone else. How are you doing, love?

i'm good. watching supernatural.. talking to Ela on skype

Supernatural is amazing!!!!!!! Sam and Dean are mine!!!!!! Winchester is my furture last name!!!!!

LOL

okay girls I'm off for now going to book store.. TTFN ta ta for now

Lol, bye Sammy!!!!!!!!!!!

Well thats what i was trying to say. U dont need ur parents to get birth control. They're free and confidential services. U can ask ur doctor to refer u places, go to a free clinic, look up ur local places or even ask a school guidance counselor. Every town has free and confidential services. U dont need ur parents consent U can go to an adult u trust, maybe if u ask Travie's parents. They seem to be open about it.

They are open about it, Tasha. But the thing is, his mom's sorta...pregnant, sooo...she kinda is off and on with moods and tasks also...so I'm unsure. Also, I have no car and no license, so, I can't do it...

sorta pregnant lol

Tania, you need to be on bc pills of some sort. Not just condoms. I got pregnant at 17 and we were using condoms. And like Tasha said, you can go to a clinic and they will help you. There's help out there you just have to seek it. And I'm pretty sure Travie's mom would drive you to a clinic if you asked regardless of her mood. After all i'm pretty sure she doesn't want her teenage son to become a teenage father. And someday, you really should talk to your parents about it.

I really hope that my daughter feels comfortable enough to come to me when she feels she's ready to start having sex. Hopefully before she does that way she can be prepared.

Okay, uhmm, Wilda...I am not sure about that at all...but I'll try and see...okay? And, we don't....really use...condoms...not very...often...but...he doesn't do that in me...he pulls out...only once did we have a close call though....

OMG. I just went through that with one of my best friends and she is 25. I can NOT express this enough. It does not matter if he...goes in you or not. You can still get pregnant from the...omg this is getting uncomfortable for me lol...well anyways you can still get pregnant and all kind of diseases. Please use a condom at ALL times.

As for the talking to your parents, I said someday. It doesn't have to be right now but someday you really should.

Tania...Wilda is right. You must use condoms at ALL times! It doesn't matter what you two do, you have a huge chance of getting pregnant either way...use your head on this...and just please keep safe on this!

Uhmmm....well...we were both each other's first...and as for the uncomfortable part...ehh, not really. I'm used to you guys and trust you guys.

Eachother's firsts' or not, you can still get pregnant. All i'm saying is be smart and responsible unless you are prepared to get pregnant and have your whole life change. And I personally think you are too young for that. I don't want to see you forced to grow up and not get a chance to be young and enjoy life. I've been there, I knwo what it's like.

And for me it's a little uncomfortable. I still blush when talking about certain things even though i'm 25 and have pretty much tried everything in the book-sorry if thats tmi lol

It's okay...I underdstand....

I don't mind talking about it though. I really don't. So anytime you have any questions or need some advice, don't hesitate to ask.

My cousin got her baby last year after sleeping with her ex-boyfriend on her 18th birthday. Her life changed once she knew she was pregnant! She didn't get to college or Uni b/c of the baby. Also, she had a massive argument with the biological father and she hasn't spoken to him for ages. Don't let it happen to you Tania, and as Wilda said, be responsible with this...just don't do anything stupid, ok?

(Btw Wilda...that was a bit of a TMI moment lol)

lol so sorry Ela (I don't think my face has ever been this red before lol)

lol...it's fine...believe me, i've heard worse!

Uhmm...this is alot to take in...I will talk to Travie about it after this period...

Wilda and Tasha: I talked to Travie...he said he'll talk to mommie and see...

Good. If you can't find someone to take you or whatever, at least always use a condom. Nothing is 100% but it's better than nothing.

I know Wilda, I know. Out of 24, we only used one 3 times...

Omg, u can get pregnant even without penetration. Foreplay. I knew a couple in highschool who were dry humping to climax and through underwear the chick got knocked up. Teenage hormones are that strong. And also if you arent aware of your monthly cycle. I dont even go near the hubby when its my 14 day in my cycle , the fertilization day, the easiest day to get pregnant. My teacher in highschool got knocked up from pre-cum. I know this might be a little straight forward and blunt for everyone's taste. But i just feel obligated to state this stuff. The pull-out system doesnt work. I know soooo many people who got pregnant that way. The hubby and I still use condoms , even after four years of being together.

I won't go into details but Tasha is correct