What's everyone up to?

Yep, Yep...one of those typical "jocks" is that what you call them in America? We just kinda call them Sport guys here But he's nice y'know? When he's pissed he'll be mad, but he's not stereotypical

Yeah we call them jocks frequently lol. I can only imagine. Most of the guys like that at my school are stereotypical. Only the soccer guys (I guess you probably call them football players) are nice to me since I am in band. Our school has the stereotypical jocks vs. band kids feud but it's not usually public except during football games.

Kim, I understand how you feel. I had a chat about it awhile back with another member from this site. The way i see it, someone posts something I take it as truth and respond as if it was truth, even if I have my doubts. I'll be pissed if it's not truth. But hey, I'm a honest person and everything i put out into the world be it real life or cyber life-it is a piece of me. So i expect the same ( even though i know its naive). The world would keep turning either way. I love you just a little bit more for your honestly.

Chloe, I'm happy your happy but I don't trust Shane. I admire you are able to forgive him, I have not yet reached anywhere close to that maturity.

In other news, my dad tricked me. He asked me to come with him to pick up a "few things". After an absoulte horrid week, i wasn't up for the usually errands extravaganza. So i said sure, since it's a just a "few things". My daddy went crazy. He got one of those scooters from the super market so we spent like 2 hours in the store and a few things turned into two full carts of things- alot of heavy stuff like cases of soda and cases of water. Not to mention it's raining and like 90 something degrees out. After a few more stores we finally made it home and i had to trug everythinggggg inside and pack everything away. So tired but this is the good part....

I went to check the mail and i received a letter in the mail, a letter I wrote four years ago to my future(present) self. Im too scared to read it cause i remember when i wrote it I cried, along with my guidance counselor and classmates from Hunter.

Ah I see, but atleast the soccer players are nice huh? Most of the athletics here are nice huys, there are just some who think they are bigger and stronger thean everyone else they're the supid ones

irresistable-shadow wrote:

Kim I understand everything you are saying, and I appreciate your truth and admire your honesty. But I believe Ash, because she is my friend. But I get what you are saying, and there will be no awkwardness between us because I still love you Hope you can still be okaa with me aswell?

I knew it was likely most of you would think it's the truth, and you've all been talking to Ash more regularly so it makes sense that I might question it, not knowing every detail.
I've got nothing against the updates still happening, I just wanted to let everyone know why I wasn't going to have a part in it anymore.
Of course I'm still ok with you *hugs* I hate coming off all bitchy and mean and disrespectful, but at the same time I hate lying and to say how happy I was about it all would be a lie because I don't know the truth of it all. If it turns out I'm completely wrong I'll feel terrible, but right now I feel better for being honest

Peace love n VA wrote:

Kim, I understand how you feel. I had a chat about it awhile back with another member from this site. The way i see it, someone posts something I take it as truth and respond as if it was truth, even if I have my doubts. I'll be pissed if it's not truth. But hey, I'm a honest person and everything i put out into the world be it real life or cyber life-it is a piece of me. So i expect the same ( even though i know its naive). The world would keep turning either way. I love you just a little bit more for your honestly.

Usually I'm like that too, thinking that even if it's fake the world will go on. But I was sick of pretending. Thanks for understanding. *hugs*

Peace love n VA wrote:

I went to check the mail and i received a letter in the mail, a letter I wrote four years ago to my future(present) self. Im too scared to read it cause i remember when i wrote it I cried, along with my guidance counselor and classmates from Hunter.

I think I'd be scared to open that too. I have a strange question though...How'd you send it to yourself 4 years in advance? Did you get someone else to send it to you, like make a promise with them that they'd wait 4 years before returning it?

Actually, My first year of college ( four year school ) my guidance counselor had our seminar class write these letters and address them. She promised to mail them in four years ( our expected graduation date). I completely forgot since I only stayed at that school a year, took a semester off and then transferred to my current community college ( a two year school). I was too curious, so i read it. It made me smile and tear up a little bit. lol.

Peace love n VA wrote:

Actually, My first year of college ( four year school ) my guidance counselor had our seminar class write these letters and address them. She promised to mail them in four years ( our expected graduation date). I completely forgot since I only stayed at that school a year, took a semester off and then transferred to my current community college ( a two year school). I was too curious, so i read it. It made me smile and tear up a little bit. lol.

That's so cool! (although at the same time not cool if it makes you cry sort of....that can't be very cool)....I meant the whole, getting a letter from yourself thing. It's nice to know that the guidance counselor still sent out your letter even though you're not at that college anymore.

Km: I know I've been seeming MIA a bit but haven't. I've bee watching others reactions.
I don't think you were bitchy about saying what you said. To be honest. I've had my doubts but I've had them because my emotions are unstable. I have no reason to believe they would lie to us. I have nothing but respect for you because you voiced what you thought. Don't feel bad for doing that. At least you let us know calmly, peacefully, and respectfully. That's all that matters. (:

Tasha- We do something like that for high school. We write ourselves a letter our 8th grade year and have others write us letters and we stick them in a "time capsule" that is held at the middle school and then toward the end of senior year, we get our envelopes back and get to look at what we wrote and what our friends wrote us. I am really curious! I can't even remember which friends I had write me stuff!

Wow Tasha that is cool. I think the whole letter to your future self and time capsule stuff is neat. Wish my school would have done that. Would have been awesome to write myself as a freshman in HS and read it as a senior in college. I wonder what i would ahve wrote lol.

Chloe, I'm happy that you are happy but I am not happy with Shane. He messed up big time in my book but as long as you are happy I will support you and be nice to him. You are an amazing girl and he has a lot of making up to do to you!

Kim, I've already addressed you in the pm and like everyone else, I admire you for your honesty.


If you are wondering about my thoughts, I've been skeptical too. I admit the doctor being that far off with Ash's duedate twice now is a bit far-fetched. (I've been pregnant 3 times 1 of them a miscarriage, so I know quite a bit about pregnancies), But I've chosen to believe b/c I see no reason for them to lie to us. I don't think Ash is that kind of person cause that would be a cruel joke to play on someone who cares a great deal about you. I know I'll be super pissed and hurt if I find out its not true. But I'd feel 100 times worse if I chose not to believe and it be true. I don't trust easily and this is one of those few times I have chosen to trust something that I can't find out for sure if it's true or not. And Kim, I've already told you, I understand completely why you've chosen not to believe. HUGS.

I care a great deal about Ash. She means a lot to me, you ALL do. This forum and all of you are just as much part of my life as my friends here are. I knwo that may sound sad but it's true. Like I said before I never thought I would have made such great friends and care so much about you all through the internet. But I did and I do.

btw, I appreciate how understanding everyone on here is being. I'd hate to feel like I couldn't speak the truth about how I feel. It wouldn't change the fact that I would, but that feeling isn't a welcome feeling lol

I've read this over a million times and I hope none of what I wrote pisses anyone off...

Hope you all have a wonderful weekend.

Oh and has anyone heard from Amy? She's kind of disappeared on us...

I didn't disappear Wilda. Just didn't have internet access for a couple days.

Kim ~ I respect you and appreciate you honesty. After what you typed, I started to think about the whole situation and I completely understand what you're saying but like soem of the others I am choosing to trust Jeff and Ash. I feel like these things can happen. We just don't see it or hear about it everyday. As for the mistake in Ash's due date happening twice, it could happen. I mean I have heard of women not knowing they were pregnant until they gave birth but I don't like the fact that the drs have messed that up so much. It makes me mad. So anyways, I respect your honesty and please don't feel like a bitch for voicing your opinion. It's good to hear other people's opinions.

Wilda ~ I am with you on the feelings. I have a whole other family on her that I trust and wish I could meet. But if someone does break that trust I don't think I would be able to forgive them. I have had people try to take advantage of my feelings for them and I'm NOT going to allow it any more. I'm tired of it. If anone plays with my feelings they will get the bitch that lays quietly inside.

I'm the same way Amy. I've put up with drama and been hurt way too many times. I don't trust easily b/c of the past. I'm an overly nice and caring person and people tend to take advantage of that. So I understand exactly how you feel.

awwwwwww group hug!

Wilda: That's not sad at all. I feel the same way. (:

I agree with Tasha! Group Hug!!!!!

I know what you mean about being taken advantage of though. Drugs are one thing I can't stand in a guy who I am looking to date because my brother has had some issues and has almost lost his life a few times due to drugs and one guy I dated lied to me for 4 months about doing drugs. He didn't tell me until after we broke up that he had been lying to me.

Thanks guys for being so understanding, it really means a lot to me
I want to make it clear that I'm not trying to stop Ash-updates either, just that I won't to part in them.

Welcome love.
Everyone here has been so understanding about what happened to me.
I return the favor whenever possible.
And I think everyone agrees with you on not stopping the Ash updates. (:

I apreciate your honesty as well Kimberly. But may I just clear something up?

I love my fiance, so very much, and I don't mena to sound like a major ass at coming to her deffense, but I would appreciate that if you must get angry and distrust someone that you refer to that direct person on a private message. Like I said, I apologize in advance fro sounding like an ass to coming to my fiance's defense, but I think I better explain the whole truth to you all.

The reason why that Ashleigh is farther along than we thought she was, is because, if any of you understand this kind of subject, the twins originally were hiding behind Ashleigh's uterus. It happens, her case on the other hand was rare. That is why Christophe passed away. Some how Ashleigh had some scarring down in that area, therefore enabling the twins to move into the front of her uterus. I'm not a doctor but that is what a reliabl one has told us. But when the twins shifted they moved forward breaking the seal that was holding them towards the back, hence the bleeding Ashleigh experienced. I believe she told Wilda about this. But the seal broke (she had surgery way back as a child, she doesn't like to speak much about it) and the twins broke through, therfore causing Christophe to die in the umbilical cord strangling. Now here is where the showing came in, I did notice that day by day she was getting bigger. Usually when the babies begin to form in the back of the uterus the growth shows nothing, but thanks to her uterus seal breaking from so much stress and amongst other terrible things, and so that is that. So as the time went on we saw the children from the broken uterus slit, that is how we got to see the childern.

So if thast explains things then fine, if not I'm truely sorry I wasted your time with explaining oursleves, when some things are meant to be private. But if this somehow proved my soon to be wife has been through so much hell and back then do what with it that you shall.

Oh unless any of you care Ashleigh is now completely verbal and she remembers all of you. I hope you care enough to.

Jeff ~ I understand where you are getting frustrated and you didn't completely sound all that bad. The things you just shared with us are private. If you or Ash wanted to share that info with us earlier, you would have but it's none of our buisness. I undestand that things would be better if the questions and concerns were pmed to you. But just so you know alot of us do trust you and Ash and believe what you, both have told us. I hope that you feel better soon. And feel free to pm me to vent. I will be more than happy to listen to you.

rozaluvsdimka4eva wrote:

I apreciate your honesty as well Kimberly. But may I just clear something up?

I love my fiance, so very much, and I don't mena to sound like a major ass at coming to her deffense, but I would appreciate that if you must get angry and distrust someone that you refer to that direct person on a private message. Like I said, I apologize in advance fro sounding like an ass to coming to my fiance's defense, but I think I better explain the whole truth to you all.

The reason why that Ashleigh is farther along than we thought she was, is because, if any of you understand this kind of subject, the twins originally were hiding behind Ashleigh's uterus. It happens, her case on the other hand was rare. That is why Christophe passed away. Some how Ashleigh had some scarring down in that area, therefore enabling the twins to move into the front of her uterus. I'm not a doctor but that is what a reliabl one has told us. But when the twins shifted they moved forward breaking the seal that was holding them towards the back, hence the bleeding Ashleigh experienced. I believe she told Wilda about this. But the seal broke (she had surgery way back as a child, she doesn't like to speak much about it) and the twins broke through, therfore causing Christophe to die in the umbilical cord strangling. Now here is where the showing came in, I did notice that day by day she was getting bigger. Usually when the babies begin to form in the back of the uterus the growth shows nothing, but thanks to her uterus seal breaking from so much stress and amongst other terrible things, and so that is that. So as the time went on we saw the children from the broken uterus slit, that is how we got to see the childern.

So if thast explains things then fine, if not I'm truely sorry I wasted your time with explaining oursleves, when some things are meant to be private. But if this somehow proved my soon to be wife has been through so much hell and back then do what with it that you shall.

Oh unless any of you care Ashleigh is now completely verbal and she remembers all of you. I hope you care enough to.

I'm sorry if you thought I was angry, I wasn't trying to be angry at anyone, I have no right to be. I would have been disappointed if you hadn't come to Ash's defence, since it shows how much you care.
I was only trying to inform people why I wouldn't be following any longer. I have no business trying to reveal answers and intimate truths from people, and like I said originally it wasn't my intention demand proof of the pregnacy's existence. But even with your explanation I'm not going to instantly change my mind. Maybe I'm an uncaring person (though I hope I'm not), but there's a limit to how much I can make myself trust online.
I don't want to know ever scar that has occurred in someone's life, particularly if it's had a major effect on them. Like you keep saying, it's private and I would never want to intrude on someone's personal life like that. Truly, I didn't want to be angry at anyone, or make anyone angry with me; I just wanted to be honest. I also wasn't trying to sway anyone away from their opinions (which you'll see I haven't, they all still care about and love Ash).

Jeff: we believe you love.

Jeff love, Ashleigh never went into that with me. I didnt know that the babies weren't located where they should be. I know a few things about what's happened in her past and most of everything thats happened recently. But that doesn't mean she tells us everything. She doesn't have too and I don't blame her if she doesn't. I hope you aren't mad at anyone. I understand if you are upset and am sooooo glad you came to Ash's defense. That says a lot about you. I would ahve been angry if you hadn't come to her defense. Something you should understand though is all of this is online. I have been lied to sooooooooo many times. There's no way to tell the truth from a lie on here unless you personally know the person. So you can either choose to trust the person and believe everything they say or you don't. Some people don't trust as easily as others, so it's almost impossible for them to just believe something. I've been through so much drama with people that it's hard for me to trust people I don't know in person. but I've chosen to trust everyone on here unless there is a reason not to. You have no idea how hard that is for some people.

You are an amazing fiance to Ash. You've been great to us by keeping everyone informed and updated. I appreciate everything you have done for Ashleigh and us.

That is AMAZING news about Ash. I am super happy Are they going to keep her in the hospital much longer? Give her a huge hug for me!



I hope everyone had a great weekend. I spent Sunday with my mom. The time past by too fadt though. It felt liek I wa sonly there for an hour when I was there for about 5 hrs. Yesterday (monday), I was gone msot of the day running errands and all. It was exhausting. I came home several times only to have to run right back out. We went out to eat last night and then went bowling. It was fun except for the fact that my son wanted to be all over the place and he wanted to bowl everyone's turn lol. Today I have loads of cleaning to do. I am not looking forward ot it. I neglected it Suday and Monday so the place is a total mess. Well, I better go get started so I can start reading.

Jeff: If you've read my posts... Mine was because of my emotions.. I was doubting myself a lot. None of it had anything to do with you or Ash. I was doubting my judgement on if I made the right call on Davian. Not you guys. You are an AMAZING fiancée for coming to her defense.

Jeff ~ Becca and Wilda said it all. I chose to trust you and Ash. I just had some problems with other people (no one on this site)trusting them. Some people have been really mean to me online so it can be hard to trust people you have never met in person. But like I said I trust you both. Ash is like a little sister to me. And you did the right thing by defending Ash. I'm proud of you for that, it shows your love for her.


So I just got home like an hour ago. First I had to work and we went on a field trip to a nature preserve. We spent like 4 hours out in the sun. Then when we got back it was like 4pm. Me and one other of my co-workers had to take a break, only 30 minutes. That wasn't enough time for me to fully recover from being with the kids but it was enough that I was able to last the rest of my shift. Then I felt exhausted coming home and I decided that I was just going to have me time when I got home. But no. My dad said that they were going out for dinner and I HAD to go. I was kid of mad. So we had dinner. It was nice but I just wanted to be by myself for a while. I don't know why but I felt like crying. I think I'm stressing about something but I have no idea what it is. So I finally got my me time and I'm like ready to fall a sleep. The good thing is I FINALLY have a day off tomorrow, but I have to see me dr and then I'm going to finally and hopefully finish cleaning my room.

Alright, I'm done rambling. So good night all and I hope y'all had a good day.

Doesn't really fit anywhere else.
Has anyone seen Inception.
Is it really as good as the reviews say it is?