Your Own Personal Guide To Secrets in the VA World That I Have Found!

Ok from the info I have gathered in my search for Spirit Bond Clues I have found the best piece of info!

Richelle Mead, quoted from her own voice, has said that everyone will be in Spirit Bound and I mean everyone we have ever met.

Well, SB is going to be setting up for LS so it's not really a big surprise if everyone is in it at some point.

Well thanks for killing my good mood Wilda sheesh, goodness does everyone love bringing me down?!

Sorry, I wasn't trying to put you down at all. I was just stating that I wasn't surprised. Thats all.

I'm having a bad day.

SS your having a bad day. I'm here if you wanna talk about it.

Its just some really bad stress happening with me lately. I finally told everyone except the rentals about me and Jeff being a couple and a lot of my friends keep telling me shit I don't think is true.

UGH I hate when that happens. Would your friends lie to you about him though?

They wouldn't but other people would. That's just part of it though.

Well Jeff and I are TOGETHER FOREVER right, I mean nothing can pull us apart now and this guy his name is Ryan he's fucked with me way too many times to count so he's grabbed my ass, grinded on me infront of Jeff, and yesterday he comes up to me and starts kissing me and grabbing my boobs and not to mention he pulls out a condom and says, "You can fuck Jeff, why not me you little tramp." I'm trying to pull free but the asswhole has me in a death grip and I finally get the ability to kick him in the balls and wipe his drool off my lips. I kick him again and one of the admins caught it and sentenced him for suspension for sexual harrasment and Jeff finds out and let's just say all hell breaks loss. Now I don't know if I have told you but he used to hit me when we started out as friends and when we went out for the first time he's got consuling so he's got it under control, well I let him hit me right so he doesnt have to feel that pain. So he went off after school and punched at my arms and legs and slapped my face, but I'm, I'm okay its nothing I haven't been through before. So he's just not taking it well I havent seen him since yesterday. I called him and he said he was at the consulers, I got him on the phone and thanking God he was there because I met with his consuler before. So that's why I was in a bad mood and now I'm kind of bruised but I'm fine.

I definitely didn't know about him hitting you. I'm actually trying to calm myself down from hearing that. I don't want to say anything to amke you mad, or upset and not want to talk to me, but I don't agree with a guy hitting a girl at all for any reason. I grew up watching my dad beat the hell out of my mom for 9 yrs before he passed away. Those are the only memories I remember of him. And they still haunt me. One of my best friend's husband has been abusive towards her-even when she was pregnant. Hell he may still be abusive. anyways, even though i have always been on the outside looking in, I know the pain that lives behind it and even though you may be letting him hit you to relieve his anger, it's still not right and its still affecting you. There's other things he can hit, a wall, a pillow, a punching bag-anything that isn't something living specially you. You are sooooo young too young to be in a situation like this already. Now it's good that you are there for him and that he is in counseling for it. It shows a lot on his part. But you allowing him to do it says it's ok and it is not ok fo rhim to hit you in any circumstance. First it starts with one hit, then two, then a beating, etc...I'm not trying to piss you off or push you away or lecture you or anything negative. I wanna be here for you even if it's only online. Talking can help. I can't tell you what to do and I don't want to. I just don't want you to think it's ok to be hit by a guy. I'm glad that guy who sexually harassed you got in trouble for it and you can actually press charges if you want just to let you know. I know I've made my friend mad by finally telling her how I felt-even though I never told her what she should/shouldn't do and I really hope I haven't made you mad. Just know I am here for you. If you don't want it to be public you can pm me or email me Wilda85@aol.com

I know you said you met his counselor but have you gone to counsel with him?

I sent you a pm.