HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Okay so I started talking to thins guy online yesturday and he already wants to meet me. I told him I would like to talk to him more first. Did I do the right thing?

You have to be careful meeting someone off line. There is alot of psycho people on the internet. You age says your 25 so i won't give a whole speech. I'll just say only you can know what to do. Did you guys meet in like a dating website or something. That's a little more trustworthy but with technology these days, you can't trust a profile. It could be he wants to meet because of how untrustworthy profiles are and he doesn't want to develop feelings for something that could be a lie( not saying you are lying but alot of people on the internet do). So him meeting maybe he just wants to know whats what and see if everything is true. I don't know the situation but make sure it's not like a booty call. Alot of people on the internet, as in life to life encounters, only want one thing. Make sure you two are on the same page. If your not ready to meet, he should respect that and if he doesn't understand, well you have your answer in what he is looking for. If you do meet, i just say make sure it's afternoon-ish ( not night time) and then if everything is okay and cool the date could lead into the night time and make sure it's a public place. Meet at the place. That way he doesn't know where you live and you are protected in that sense. I'm sorry, i don't mean to be a downer. I just don't want to see anyone get hurt weather physically or emotionally.

Thanks! So far he seems fine with just talking so lets hope things go alright.

I met the guy today. We talked for like 5 hours last night and then when we where together today we talked for 2 hours. He is really nice. I like his eyes. On the outside there is blue, middle is green, and by the pupil is a little bit of brown. God he is cute.

Aw. Nice eyes. How everything goes well for you.

That's great! And as long as you're safe and are here to tell the tale, it's all good. If I had been here sooner, I would have said that if you were going to go meet him, meet in a public place like a coffee shop or somewhere else public.

Wow you took a major risk meeting him but I am glad you are ok. Just be safe. Stick to safe and very public places until you really know him. Be careful! and he does sound like he has pretty eyes.

Thanks for all the concern. It was his idea to meet at a pizza shop, plus he is part Italian. I want to see him again and congratulate him because he just got a job. He was laid-off and got discharged from the Marines.

Good on him. But stay careful, eh? Stick to those public places.

I'll make sure of that.